{"id":371,"date":"2024-12-31T08:03:16","date_gmt":"2024-12-31T08:03:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/relationshipbloginfo.com\/?p=371"},"modified":"2024-12-31T08:03:16","modified_gmt":"2024-12-31T08:03:16","slug":"the-truth-about-good-relationships-tea-over-rice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/relationshipbloginfo.com\/?p=371","title":{"rendered":"The truth about good relationships: tea over rice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xJaN7R_d45E\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The truth about good relationships is that good relationships are boring. No one particularly likes to admit this, but that doesn&#8217;t change the fact of the matter. Good relationships are stable, reliable, predictable, and free of drama. This is neither particularly interesting nor exciting. 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